Are you out of good ideas? Can't figure out how to love your neighbors? Find someone who is doing it (they are all over the church) and help them!
Love your neighbors in ways they won’t ever see. Find ways to bless in secret. This matters too!
Don’t give up loving people. Sometimes love takes a long time to sink in. Keep loving people every day.
Purge "church lingo" from your vocabulary. Don't assume your neighbors know "potluck," "worship," church "body," or anything like that.